Every bond is a pair of electrons, and electrons are negative. Negative charges push each other away, so the bonds around an atom spread out as far apart as they can.
For four bonds, the furthest-apart arrangement points them at the corners of a tetrahedron: a pyramid with a triangle for a base. The carbon sits in the middle, not at the top, and every bond is 109.5° from each of the others. That is wider than the 90° the flat drawing suggests.
Chemists have a way to draw 3D shapes on flat paper. Plain lines lie flat in the page. A solid wedge points toward you, out of the page, and a hashed wedge points away from you, behind it. Each wedge starts narrow at the carbon and gets wider toward the atom at its end.